Here (Australia) our oncosts are classed as
P & H H = Handling.
I am going to back GG and Mrs M on this one, if the P&H was quoted up front, and you agreed to pay it (when you placed a bid), there's no point complaining.
Personally, if I see the P&H as excessive, I will email and see if I get a breakdown of the costs. I have no problem a seller charging a couple of dollars handling charge...
so long as it is stated up front!. Its the ones that dont list a P&H, then charge you like a wounded bull to make up for their ending price shortfall, that irritate me.
Mind you, I only got stung like that once, now I will email if there is no quote and get one before I bid.
An eBay seller, like any other retailer, has the right to charge you what he likes, its up to you whether you decide to purchase the item.
The only time you can complain, is in the example that cartman gave, thats against eBay's policy of fee avoidance.
If you bought from a retailer for $3.00 more than the shop around the corner - its not the retailer's fault, but your own for deciding to purchase it from them without doing your homework
The more expensive retailer might have more overheads to cover, as your seller, may have to travel 40kms to post your item and rather than having a high start price, they opt to charge you a handling fee.
Soap Box Ramble is now complete.