Is it ok to do this?

I don't see why it would be wrong to approach a buyer and ask if they're interested in re-selling the coveted item. Of course they're probably going to really pump up the price on you. Anyway, the worst that could happen (I think) is that they say no.

Sometimes, if an item is exceptionally rare, I'll send a note to the seller asking them to remember me if the buyer doesn't follow through or to let me know if they would be re-listing it.

WarriorNun

"If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning"

You have to be careful, though, WarriorNun. Even the most innocuous contact can raise unexpected wrath in some people. I very politely informed one seller that the book he was offering as a first edition wasn't a first edition. He complained to eBay that I was harassing him and got me a notice of censure, even though no punitive action by eBay was involved. I guess he intended to mislead buyers.

If the auction is closed, then it seems to me that it is no business of Ebay. You are not taking their profit. On the otherhand, if the buyer says he is going to list it, then back off.

rsmiller40

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Steve posted: You have to be careful, though, WarriorNun. Even the most innocuous contact can raise unexpected wrath in some people.

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I suppose I've been very lucky in that I've not had a bad experience...but thanks for the heads up, as a seller certainly could take it the wrong way and make life miserable!

I *always* make a point of wording that sort of note just the right way; I make sure it is very passive, cordial, and non-threatening - acknowledging all the options.

WarriorNun

"If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning"