Admittedly, it's much easier to leave negative feedback for someone if you don't do a lot of selling on EBay. But, the whole system is predicated on honesty. Unfortunately, EBay doesn't cross some thin legal line when it comes to involving themselves in feedback disputes. Just the fact that they limit feedback to be within 90 days probably crosses this legal line, but that's another story.
I once purchased a gold pocket watch for what was a good price (Today it would even be better) and sent out the M.O. the next day. On the following day I received an email from the seller, telling me that the item was stolen, along with several other watches from his car. He returned my money order, with the envelope unopened (He couldn't even know if there was a M.O. in it.). I was miffed because, at the very least, I felt that the seller did not exercise due care for what was now, in essence, my watch. I emailed him, voicing my displeasure, and asking him to fax me a copy of the police report, which I'd felt he would've have undoubtedly filed, being that he'd had "20 watches" stolen. He went on the major offensive, saying that he didn't need to supply me with any proof of anything, that his word should be enough. I didn't know this guy from Adam.
<I>Sidenote</I>:When I checked his recent feedback, I saw that a seller, with whom I've had some real problems over the years, had left him feedback just prior to my leaving feedback. The great Ebay door of communication had been opened between this buyer and seller due to the recent transaction. Suddenly, my purchase is thwarted due to reasons that I found suspicious. Anyway, it is my belief that this nemesis seller contacted the watch seller with a higher off-EBay bid, or some other interfering action. I can never prove this, and EBay is no help for common buyer versus PowerSellers, but his feedback is directly under mine on the feedback page. What are the odds of it being a real coincidence? Slim and none.
Anyway, here's the feedback that this seller left for me, after I left him a truthful, Neutral feedback. My only threats were that I would not be able to leave him good feedback, due to the circumstances surrounding the transaction. Apparently, he never looked at the Neutral feedback I left him before leaving the Negative for me.
<I>Item Stolen-Returned Money to Customer-Customer made threats-left negative feed
Seller litenrod ( 130) Nov-03-04 10:27 4936040436
Reply by kingofthewind: No threats,gave Neutral feedback,check it. FB system useless unless truthful. Nov-03-04 11:53</I>
My feedback as left for him:
<I>Neutral feedback rating Good deal made, sent M.O. next day, seller returns M.O., claims item was stolen</I>
<B>The feedback system really is useless unless truthful.</B>