To anyone who cares;IMO the following two statements were instrumental in causing this thread to unravel:
”Shouldn't there be honor among snipers and let he or she who placed the earlier snipe have priority?” (Clark’s 2nd post - 10:34 AM)
“If AS knows that there is another snipe on the same item for a higher amount, shouldn't it let me know, so I can increase my own bid, if I wanted to?” (Clark’s 3rd post - 3:13 PM)
What happened to “honor” between 10:34 AM and 3:13 PM?
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To Chatter and (The other) Steve;Firstly, thanks for your support! We’ve all experienced having our well-intentioned assistance get perverted into something else. When it happens, it’s reassuring to know that others don’t view us as outcasts.
Sometimes it seems like a post was accidentally left on the wrong topic. I’m baffled as to how it can get from “Point Plus” to “Point Negative”.
Secondly, I hope to clear up some of the confusion, or at least propose my side of this:
In my 1st post, I thought I was dealing with the old question of what would happen if 2 members placed a snipe on the same auction? I gave Clark the “standard” answer; discussed using 8-second (and more on Sunday) lead times; even left “Hope you enjoy AS, come back again”. Same old; same old.
In my 2nd post and 3rd post on this topic, I found myself responding to this idea that somehow it would be honorable to let an earlier snipe have priority. On the surface it seemed bizarre, but what the heck? I used the longest “fuse” I could find to address this “idea”. I addressed several of his statements; all in a friendly manner. In response to his statement that it would somehow be honorable to respect a prior snipe, I said in a tongue-in-cheek style, “I'll let you have the honor; I want the merchandise.” I then ended the post with, “I don't think I've resolved this last issue for you, so hopefully someone else will give you a better explanation.”
A few hours later, in Clark’s next post, he was no longer discussing the honor of snipers respecting earlier snipes (placing no snipe). Clark was now discussing his ability to increase his snipe (placing a larger snipe). As of today, I’m still unsure as to which of these two conflicting opinions Clark wanted to pursue (no snipe vs. larger snipe), or did he do an about-face? Perhaps he didn’t have a specific thesis and intended this to be a rhetorical discussion?
You both know it’s harder to hit a moving target. Well, it’s also harder to hit a moving premise. The fuse was getting shorter, but I didn’t go postal. In my 4th post of that same day for this topic, I now try to address his most recent issue. I write many sincere responses and some playful bantering. I leave a “razz” and a “grin”. The next morning I awake to see the following response from Clark: “I think your first reply said all I need to know about you. All you want is the merchandise. Your reply has several non sequiturs and falacious (sic) arguments in them. But I will not bother to point them out or even dignify them with an answer.” (4th post – 5/6 9:19 PM)
Clark quickly added this little tidbit, “While this first foray in the forum may not have gone as smooth as I may have expected, it at least revealed the character of some people in this forum.” (5th post – 5/6 9:44 PM)
Then you (Chatter) provide this in my defense, “We can assure you that he (Rick) is NOT lacking in integrity in any way, and you really ought not to jump to any premature conclusion.”
Then you (“The other Steve”) said, “As far as Rick goes - I agree with Chatter - he's one of the great resources on this forum.”
But, the hits keep on coming, “Unlike others who may be concerned with nothing else than getting the merchandise, I am not obsessed with winning.” (7th post – 5/7 8:49 PM)
(Clark is from Mars and Rick is from Venus?)
Clark has said he wants AS to tell him about a higher snipe “not because I want to win” (7th post – 5/7 8:49 PM), yet Clark also states that he would increase his snipe? (3rd post – 5/6 3:13 PM; 5th post – 5/6 9:44 PM) Would he increase his snipe because he wanted to “lose”?
Clark has questioned my character because I wouldn’t “honor” an earlier snipe if AS provided this info? Yet twice Clark admits he would do the same thing?
It appears to me that Clark’s statements about my character have created a smoke screen allowing his conflicting statements to be buried. My posts were not a discussion on sniping morality or proxy bidders (although, as you both know, and pointed out, are usually time bombs for me).
I was sincerely trying to respond favorably to Clark’s “issues”. I had a difficult time keeping up with the mental redirection caused by Clark’s opposing statements. I’m still not sure if Clark ever had a specific issue or question, or was just extemporizing.
The following is one of my favorites: “… As for Chatter's and ‘the other Steve's’ defense in behalf of Rick, I take them all under advisement.” (7th post – 5/7 8:49 PM) – “I take them all under advisement”??? It sounds like Clark has become a self-appointed judge presiding over a trial of my character? I didn’t expect Clark to thank me for the time I’ve spent addressing his antithetical statements, but his implication seems ironic. Clark’s opinion of me is of no importance.
Your opinion IS important!Perhaps I should have been even more patient? Perhaps I wasn’t patient at all? But this hasn’t changed my opinion about AS or this forum.
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To Clark;“My concern has always been limited to AS and whether AS had such an existing snipe alert.” (7th post – 5/7 8:49 PM) – Nope.