Thank you all for your welcome and the helpful advice. I was wondering whether he might be in hospital or jail, so I haven't sent any rude messages, thankfully. Still no contact from the seller despite my messaging through email, eBay ask seller a question, and eBay Contact Member. I haven't pressed the "request total" button (yet).
Here are the seller's vital statistics:
Member since 05-Jun-04
Feedback Score 0
No Current Items for Sale by janaahunt.
He (she?) did have a number of other items for sale all ending at the same time; I cannot find what happened to those items. I suppose they sold.
He did send an invoice but not for the postage (I live in Australia) so I do not know how much I am supposed to send. I would use PayPal, which seller accepts. I haven't paid yet. Should I just stick it out and wait for him to contact me? Would PayPal reimburse me if I sent the money but did not get the item? Should I just forget all about it? Maybe I will just post a letter now that I know how to get his address from eBay. A get well card?
Thanks again for your input.