Now, “bear” with me. Here’s what I don’t understand. If a person finds someone else’s posts disturbing (or what ever word works), then why post to that someone? If it’s completely impossible for that person to ignore that someone’s posts (ergo, not read them), then shouldn’t the person be able to control their emotions, or at a minimum, just laugh it off? Is it possible that the person, although they complain (or what ever word works), really enjoys the bantering? Is it possible that while other people are feeling sorry for the person, that the someone is actually treating her as a person that knows what’s best for her? Remember – any conversation requires at least two people; otherwise it’s a soliloquy.