The problem here is a lack of communication on both sides. Jabbergah should have stated his shipping policy and that his business is part-time. The buyer should have mentioned that he wanted the item immediately. Insufficient communication of expectations leads to dissappointment. Oh and Jabbergah, how can you not know what "ty" means?!!
Sweater32's mention of free "carrier pickup" is quite important. Jabbergah should definately look into this. Most people don't know that a few experienced online auction users have started to document what they've learned on EBay and other sites. This includes ways to easily improve service for your business, like "carrier pickup". Furthermore some have chosen to provide this valuable information to the public for FREE! Well almost free; they do make you pay a $5 shipping fee to prevent scammers from taking advantage of them. I've found the one offered on www.highauctionprofits.info to be very useful, even if you're just using EBay.
Tom Wood